Thursday, September 9, 2010

What exactly is an Emotional Connection or Soul-tie? Part 6 of 6

An emotional connection or soul-tie come in many varieties nevertheless it is simply summed up as a connection or soul-tie between you and someone else which is dependent on your feelings for them emotionally rather than physically. You have a tendency to feel similar towards things and ideas, feeling wise, which usually places both of you on an emotional bond, soul-tie or connection. They can also raise emotions in you, typically good feeling emotions, by simply being near you or speaking with you face-to-face or even by phone. To have an emotional connection with somebody is actually far greater than having a physical connection due to the fact your emotions do not usually alter without provocation and the physical bond will vanish as time passes. You cannot control your emotions to start with and if you're able to discover that you feel positive emotions along with a connection with an individual this can be a good relationship. This emotional connection can be a great and lasting bond if it is centered and focused around each person's relationship with Christ rather than on each other.


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Monday, September 6, 2010

What exactly is an Emotional Connection or Soul-tie? Part 5 of 6

Last but not least, hugging is something which feeds that emotional connection. I am not referring to sex, I am talking about non-sexual touching as well as physical closeness. Certainly, sex can give rise to feelings of emotional connection, however it does not constantly. Sex outside of marriage can cause soul-ties and relationships that are not healthy or emotionally stable that could cause problems with your relationships in the future if they are not dealt with properly. It is possible to have relations with somebody without having feeling emotionally connected in any way. Sex on it's own will not result in emotional closeness.


All of us communication a great deal nonverbally. Cuddling, hugging, touching, holding your companion - these kinds of things all convey your feelings for her or him without having you saying a word.


It will take time for you to develop a powerful emotional connection with another person. You cannot hurry it, and it is not recommended to try. Allow it to develop and grow slowly but surely with time. The connection will be much stronger this way, and will also be just about guaranteed to last.


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Friday, September 3, 2010

What exactly is an Emotional Connection or Soul-tie? Part 4 of 6

You have to spend time with someone to be able to develop an emotional connection. I do not simply mean going on dates. I am referring to simply hang out with each other. Spending some time with each other in a relaxed and peacefull atmosphere will permit much more chance for sharing thoughts and feelings as well as speaking freely about things.


Search for activities both of you take joy in doing. It's difficult connecting on an emotional level if you do not have in common a few common interests. You will find it simpler to be your real self when are doing something you enjoy and feel good about. You will really feel much more comfortable as well as your partner will get to discover the real you. This functions both ways, obviously. You'll be able to see the genuine person they are as well.


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Wednesday, September 1, 2010

What exactly is an Emotional Connection or Soul-tie? Part 3 of 6

Honesty and trust are essential components of emotional connections, plus they each relate to communication also. Communication is actually pointless if you are not really truthful and honest. Half-truths or lies will not create a healthy and balanced emotional connection.


Genuine, open communication demands trust. Before you feel safe telling your partner significant things concerning yourself, you will need to trust them never to reveal your secrets with anybody else. You will need to have confidence in them to not make use of the information against you for some reason. Honesty is necessary right here, too. It's tough to be able to trust somebody who is not honest with you.


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Monday, August 30, 2010

What exactly is an Emotional Connection or Soul-tie? Part 2 of 6






Communication is paramount, or the key, in order to becoming emotionally connected with someone else. You can not be emotionally linked to someone if you cannot communicate with them. It's not necessary to tell your companion everything, primarily in the first phases of a relationship, nevertheless, you must be able to talk to them regarding issues that are very important to you.

Communication works both ways, obviously. Your partner must have to have the ability to speak with you, as well. Which means you'll need to be a good listener. In order to motivate your partner to talk to you, listen closely without interrupting. Do not jump right in with advice.

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Saturday, August 28, 2010

What exactly is an Emotional Connection or Soul-tie? Part 1 of 6

Just what does it mean being emotionally connected to someone else? It is something that goes further than just the actual physical connection. It is having the ability to connect with someone on an emotional level - to be able to reveal your thoughts and feelings with him or her, really open and vulnerable, as well as trusting that individual to not damage you emotionally. The connection must work both ways. It is not a genuine connection when you reveal your emotions and feelings yet the other individual keeps everything back.


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Saturday, April 3, 2010

Part I - Emotional Connections and Soul Ties

Heart and soul ties can be positive or negative.  It is not possible to be in an intimate relationship together with someone that actually is tied to a connection with another person, or a soul-tie. You could have lived together with your companion and despite the fact that it appears like a relationship and even has the aroma of a relationship; it is not suddenly an intimate relationship until you develop an emotional bond with each other. In reality, lacking an emotional connection it is simply room and board, a nice, cozy location to sleep and also collect your mail. What all of your relationships appear to have in common is the fact that you are expecting and demanding so little of your partner and then that's exactly what you end up getting instead of a soul-mate.

The actual way you build a genuine emotional connection with another person is simply by revealing your inner thoughts, feelings and desires, confiding your own hopes, dreams, goals and disappointments, as well as supporting and praying for each other and their ambitions. This has to operate both ways; it is not a connection unless it is completely mutual, expressing yourself lovingly and in the same way you give you hope and anticipate something in return for your emotional support. This at the least may establish realistic expectations; in addition it may offer him or her motivation to get their own emotional life in order. Otherwise, at a minimum you would probably have recognized where you stood and walked away along with your self respect in one piece before the marriage.

Every unsuccessful relationship is damaging not merely because you lose a companion but simply because you end up feeling dishonored, cheated, or even violated. Up until you let your existing partner or a prospective partner lovingly understand that they have their part to maintain in a loving relationship, you will simply continue to keep on repeating the routine of disrespecting one self with same person or with someone new and you have been, largely in part, to blame yourself.  The benefits from the emotional experience of getting cheated is a motivation to take care of yourself better in the future or in upcoming relationships.